About

Beth Gadomski, Psy.D., is a psychologist, author, and speaker whose work explores how we can create relationships that reflect who we actually are—not simply the expectations we inherit.

Drawing on more than two decades of clinical experience, she developed the Relational Integrity Framework, a non-prescriptive approach grounded in consent, accountability, self-awareness, authenticity, and ongoing choice. Her work integrates empirical research with a nuanced understanding of identity, attachment, trauma, sexuality, and relational systems.

Beth has held clinical positions at Stanford University and the University of California, Berkeley, and her doctoral research examined the intersection of ethnic-racial and subcultural identity. These experiences continue to inform her interest in how identity, culture, and belonging shape the ways we connect.

Her work has particular relevance for people navigating consensual non-monogamy, kink, queer relationships, platonic partnerships, chosen family, childfree-by-choice lives, non-cohabiting partnerships, and other relationships beyond conventional expectations - but its central question is broader:

What changes when we stop trying to fit into static, pre-existing relationship models and start asking how can we co-create relationships that fluidily evolve?

Her forthcoming book, Consenting Adults, brings this inquiry—and the Relational Integrity Framework—to a broader audience.

To learn more about her therapy practice in California, visit integrativecounseling.com.