ReSOURCES
RESOURCES
Consenting Adults is infused with wisdom from empirical research, integrative theoretical orientations, diverse perspectives, and relationship and sex educators. It's accompanying Resource List features essentials for your Relationship Toolkit.
Feel free to explore here or download the complete Resource List PDF below.
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Dana, D. (2018). The polyvagal theory in therapy: Engaging the rhythm of regulation. W. W. Norton & Company.
Guerra, K. (2024). Badass Bonita: Break the silence, become a revolution, unearth your inner guerrera. Balance.
Hsu, H. H. (2024). The healing trauma workbook for Asian Americans: Heal from racism, build resilience, and find strength in your identity. New Harbinger Publications.
McLaren, K. (2023). The language of emotions: What your feelings are trying to tell you. (Rev. ed.) St. Martin’s Essentials.
Menakem, R. (2017). My grandmother’s hands: Racialized trauma and the pathway to mending our hearts and bodies. Central Recovery Press.
Siegel, D. J. (1999). The developing mind: How relationships and the brain interact to shape who we are. Guilford Press.
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Busch, L. (2026). Carry your heart: Indigenous helping wisdom and the science of psychological flexibility. Simon & Schuster.
Gross, J. J., & Ford, B. Q. (Eds.). (2023). The handbook of emotion regulation (3rd ed.). Guilford Press.
Lozano, A. (2023). Por amor a mí: Elígete a diario y mejora tu salud mental. Aguilar.
McKay, M., Wood, J. C., & Brantley, J. (2019). The dialectical behavior therapy skills workbook (2nd ed.). New Harbinger Publications.
Neal-Barnett, A. M. (2003). Soothe your nerves: The Black woman’s guide to understanding and overcoming anxiety, panic, and fears. Simon & Schuster.
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Hu, J. (2023). The boundary revolution: Decolonize your relationships and discover a new path to joy. Difference Press.
Menakem, R. (2017). My grandmother’s hands: Racialized trauma and the pathway to mending our hearts and bodies. Central Recovery Press.
Mullan, J. (2023). Decolonizing therapy: Oppression, historical trauma, and politicizing your practice. W. W. Norton & Company.
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Dunn, J. (2023, April 7). When someone you love is upset, ask this one question. The New York Times. https://www.nytimes.com/2023/04/07/well/emotions-support-relationships.html
Gottman, J. M., & Silver, N. (2015). The seven principles for making marriage work: A practical guide from the country’s foremost relationship expert (Rev. ed.). Harmony.
Hodder-Shipp, A. (2025). Speaking from the heart: 18 languages for modern love (Full color ed.). Shoebox Press.
Johnson, S. M. (2008). Hold me tight: Seven conversations for a lifetime of love. Little, Brown and Company.
Jones, D. (2015, January 9). The 36 questions that lead to love. The New York Times. www.nytimes.com/2015/01/09/style/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html
Moon, A. (2020). Getting it: A guide to hot, healthy hookups and shame-free sex. Ten Speed Press.
Perel, E. (2006). Mating in captivity: Unlocking erotic intelligence. HarperCollins.
Real, T. (2022). Us: Getting past you and me to build a more loving relationship. Harmony; Rodale; Convergent.
Tawwab, N. G. (2021). Set boundaries, find peace: A guide to reclaiming yourself. TarcherPerigee.
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Fern, J., & Cooley, D. (2023). Polywise: A deeper dive into navigating open relationships. Thornapple Press.
Michaels, M. A., & Johnson, P. (2015). Designer relationships: A guide to happy monogamy, positive polyamory, and optimistic open relationships. Cleis Press.
Taormino, T. (2008). Opening up: A guide to creating and sustaining open relationships. Cleis Press.
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Evans, P. (2009). The verbally abusive relationship: How to recognize it and how to respond (3rd ed.). Adams Media.
NiCarthy, G. (2004). Getting free: You can end abuse and take back your life (Rev. ed.). Seal Press.
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Green, K. E. (2021). Relationships in recovery: Repairing damage and building healthy connections while overcoming addiction. The Guilford Press.
Proulx, A. (2021). Understanding and helping an addict (and keeping your sanity). [Independently published].
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Coontz, S. (2005). Marriage, a history: From obedience to intimacy, or how love conquered marriage. Viking.
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